This adds a "purge" parameter to the file resource. To do this, we have
to add the API hooks so the file resource can query other resources in
the graph to know if they are present, and as a result whether they
should be excluded from the purge or not.
This is useful for when we have a managed directory with some managed
contents. If a managed file is removed from the directory, then it will
be removed by the file (directory) resource if it has Purge set.
Alternatively, you can use the Reverse meta param, which is sometimes
preferable for this use case and sometimes not. This will be discussed
elsewhere.
This also adds a bunch of tests for this feature.
This also makes a few somewhat related cleanups in the file code.
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