This prevents a nasty race that can happen in a graph with more than one
resource. If a resource has someone that it can BackPoke, and then
suppose an event comes in. It runs the obj.Event() method (from inside
its Watch loop) and then *before* the resulting Process method can run
it receives a pause event and pauses. Then the parent resource pauses as
well. Finally (it's a race) the Process gets around to running, and
decides it needs to BackPoke. At this point since the parent resource is
paused, it receives the BackPoke at a time when it can't handle
receiving one, and it panics!
As a result, we now track the number of running Process possibilities
via a WaitGroup which gets incremented from the obj.Event() and we don't
finish our pause or exit operations until it has quiesced and our
WaitGroup lets us know via Wait(). Lastly in order to prevent repeated
replays, we detect when we're quiescing and suspend replaying until post
pause. We don't need to save the replay (playback variable) explicitly
because its state remains during pause, and on exit it would get
re-checked anyways.