etcd: Rewrite embed etcd implementation

This is a giant cleanup of the etcd code. The earlier version was
written when I was less experienced with golang.

This is still not perfect, and does contain some races, but at least
it's a decent base to start from. The automatic elastic clustering
should be considered an experimental feature. If you need a more
battle-tested cluster, then you should manage etcd manually and point
mgmt at your existing cluster.

engine/graph/engine.go

@@ -62,6 +62,13 @@ type Engine struct {
 // If the struct does not validate, or it cannot initialize, then this errors.
 // Initially it will contain an empty graph.
 func (obj *Engine) Init() error {
+	if obj.Program == "" {
+		return fmt.Errorf("the Program is empty")
+	}
+	if obj.Hostname == "" {
+		return fmt.Errorf("the Hostname is empty")
+	}
+
 	var err error
 	if obj.graph, err = pgraph.NewGraph("graph"); err != nil {
 		return err